Ok, I’m not a counselor, but married ladies this ones for you.  Want to add some spice up you bedroom ?  Start by removing the floral quilt bedding with the ruffled lace shams and that adorable pink satin heart shaped  pillow you made in junior high school. The frilly curtains with the balloon valance and rope tassel tie backs can go too.

There’s nothing wrong with these choices per se, but this is a couple’s bedroom now.  Do you really want your husband having flashbacks to his kid sisters bedroom every time he opens the door.  I think not…

Maculine and feminine accents–perfect shade of graphite softenned by yellow and teal accents

ok guys, don’t tell me you don’t like think the zebra pillows aren’t sexy…vavavoom

Crisp clean lavender, blue, and white stripes reminiscent of beach vacations for two.

dramatic damask print for her, subdued earth tones for him